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<SEC-DOCUMENT>0001248967-03-000003.txt : 20031212
<SEC-HEADER>0001248967-03-000003.hdr.sgml : 20031212
<ACCEPTANCE-DATETIME>20031212172155
ACCESSION NUMBER:		0001248967-03-000003
CONFORMED SUBMISSION TYPE:	4
PUBLIC DOCUMENT COUNT:		1
CONFORMED PERIOD OF REPORT:	20031211
FILED AS OF DATE:		20031212

ISSUER:		

	COMPANY DATA:	
		COMPANY CONFORMED NAME:			BOK FINANCIAL CORP ET AL
		CENTRAL INDEX KEY:			0000875357
		STANDARD INDUSTRIAL CLASSIFICATION:	NATIONAL COMMERCIAL BANKS [6021]
		IRS NUMBER:				731373454
		STATE OF INCORPORATION:			OK
		FISCAL YEAR END:			1231

	BUSINESS ADDRESS:	
		STREET 1:		BANK OF OKLAHOMA TOWER
		STREET 2:		PO BOX 2300
		CITY:			TULSA
		STATE:			OK
		ZIP:			74192
		BUSINESS PHONE:		9185953025

	MAIL ADDRESS:	
		STREET 1:		BANK OF OKLAHOMA TOWER
		STREET 2:		P O BOX 2300
		CITY:			TULSA
		STATE:			OK
		ZIP:			74192

REPORTING-OWNER:	

	OWNER DATA:	
		COMPANY CONFORMED NAME:			NELL STEVEN E
		CENTRAL INDEX KEY:			0001248967

	FILING VALUES:
		FORM TYPE:		4
		SEC ACT:		1934 Act
		SEC FILE NUMBER:	000-19341
		FILM NUMBER:		031052616

	BUSINESS ADDRESS:	
		STREET 1:		C/O FREDERIC DORWART
		STREET 2:		124 E FOURTH STREET
		CITY:			TULSA
		STATE:			OK
		ZIP:			74103
		BUSINESS PHONE:		9185839922

	MAIL ADDRESS:	
		STREET 1:		C/O FREDERIC DORWART
		STREET 2:		124 E FOURTH STREET
		CITY:			TULSA
		STATE:			OK
		ZIP:			74103
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    <schemaVersion>X0201</schemaVersion>

    <documentType>4</documentType>

    <periodOfReport>2003-12-11</periodOfReport>


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    <issuer>
        <issuerCik>0000875357</issuerCik>
        <issuerName>BOK FINANCIAL CORP ET AL</issuerName>
        <issuerTradingSymbol>BOKF</issuerTradingSymbol>
    </issuer>

    <reportingOwner>
        <reportingOwnerId>
            <rptOwnerCik>0001248967</rptOwnerCik>
            <rptOwnerName>NELL STEVEN E</rptOwnerName>
        </reportingOwnerId>
        <reportingOwnerAddress>
            <rptOwnerStreet1>C/O FREDERIC DORWART</rptOwnerStreet1>
            <rptOwnerStreet2>124 E FOURTH STREET</rptOwnerStreet2>
            <rptOwnerCity>TULSA</rptOwnerCity>
            <rptOwnerState>OK</rptOwnerState>
            <rptOwnerZipCode>74103</rptOwnerZipCode>
            <rptOwnerStateDescription></rptOwnerStateDescription>
        </reportingOwnerAddress>
        <reportingOwnerRelationship>
            <isDirector>0</isDirector>
            <isOfficer>1</isOfficer>
            <isTenPercentOwner>0</isTenPercentOwner>
            <isOther>0</isOther>
            <officerTitle>Exec. VP and CFO</officerTitle>
        </reportingOwnerRelationship>
    </reportingOwner>

    <nonDerivativeTable>

        <nonDerivativeTransaction>
            <securityTitle>
                <value>Common Stock</value>
            </securityTitle>
            <transactionDate>
                <value>2003-12-11</value>
            </transactionDate>
            <transactionCoding>
                <transactionFormType>4</transactionFormType>
                <transactionCode>S</transactionCode>
                <equitySwapInvolved>0</equitySwapInvolved>
            </transactionCoding>
            <transactionTimeliness>
                <value></value>
            </transactionTimeliness>
            <transactionAmounts>
                <transactionShares>
                    <value>500</value>
                </transactionShares>
                <transactionPricePerShare>
                    <value>39</value>
                </transactionPricePerShare>
                <transactionAcquiredDisposedCode>
                    <value>D</value>
                </transactionAcquiredDisposedCode>
            </transactionAmounts>
            <postTransactionAmounts>
                <sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction>
                    <value>6427</value>
                </sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction>
            </postTransactionAmounts>
            <ownershipNature>
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                    <value>D</value>
                </directOrIndirectOwnership>
            </ownershipNature>
        </nonDerivativeTransaction>

    </nonDerivativeTable>



    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>Frederic Dorwart</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2003-12-12</signatureDate>
    </ownerSignature>

</ownershipDocument>

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