SEC FORM 4

SEC Form 4

FORM 4

UNITED STATES SECURITIES AND EXCHANGE COMMISSION
Washington, D.C. 20549

STATEMENT OF CHANGES IN BENEFICIAL OWNERSHIP

Filed pursuant to Section 16(a) of the Securities Exchange Act of 1934
or Section 30(h) of the Investment Company Act of 1940

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1. Name and Address of Reporting Person^*

LYBARGER STANLEY A

(Last)

(First)

(Middle)

C/O FREDERIC DORWART

124 E FOURTH STREET

(Street)

TULSA

74103

(City)

(State)

(Zip)

2. Issuer Name and Ticker or Trading Symbol
BOK FINANCIAL CORP ET AL [ BOKF ]

5. Relationship of Reporting Person(s) to Issuer
(Check all applicable)

X	Director	10% Owner
X	Officer (give title below)	Other (specify below)
	President and CEO

3. Date of Earliest Transaction (Month/Day/Year)
12/09/2009

4. If Amendment, Date of Original Filed (Month/Day/Year)

6. Individual or Joint/Group Filing (Check Applicable Line)

X	Form filed by One Reporting Person
	Form filed by More than One Reporting Person

Table I - Non-Derivative Securities Acquired, Disposed of, or Beneficially Owned
1. Title of Security (Instr. 3)	2. Transaction Date (Month/Day/Year)	2A. Deemed Execution Date, if any (Month/Day/Year)	3. Transaction Code (Instr. 8)		4. Securities Acquired (A) or Disposed Of (D) (Instr. 3, 4 and 5)			5. Amount of Securities Beneficially Owned Following Reported Transaction(s) (Instr. 3 and 4)	6. Ownership Form: Direct (D) or Indirect (I) (Instr. 4)	7. Nature of Indirect Beneficial Ownership (Instr. 4)
1. Title of Security (Instr. 3)	2. Transaction Date (Month/Day/Year)	2A. Deemed Execution Date, if any (Month/Day/Year)	Code	V	Amount	(A) or (D)	Price		6. Ownership Form: Direct (D) or Indirect (I) (Instr. 4)	7. Nature of Indirect Beneficial Ownership (Instr. 4)

Table II - Derivative Securities Acquired, Disposed of, or Beneficially Owned (e.g., puts, calls, warrants, options, convertible securities)
1. Title of Derivative Security (Instr. 3)	2. Conversion or Exercise Price of Derivative Security	3. Transaction Date (Month/Day/Year)	3A. Deemed Execution Date, if any (Month/Day/Year)	4. Transaction Code (Instr. 8)		5. Number of Derivative Securities Acquired (A) or Disposed of (D) (Instr. 3, 4 and 5)		6. Date Exercisable and Expiration Date (Month/Day/Year)		7. Title and Amount of Securities Underlying Derivative Security (Instr. 3 and 4)		8. Price of Derivative Security (Instr. 5)	9. Number of derivative Securities Beneficially Owned Following Reported Transaction(s) (Instr. 4)	10. Ownership Form: Direct (D) or Indirect (I) (Instr. 4)	11. Nature of Indirect Beneficial Ownership (Instr. 4)
1. Title of Derivative Security (Instr. 3)	2. Conversion or Exercise Price of Derivative Security	3. Transaction Date (Month/Day/Year)	3A. Deemed Execution Date, if any (Month/Day/Year)	Code	V	(A)	(D)	Date Exercisable	Expiration Date	Title	Amount or Number of Shares	8. Price of Derivative Security (Instr. 5)		10. Ownership Form: Direct (D) or Indirect (I) (Instr. 4)	11. Nature of Indirect Beneficial Ownership (Instr. 4)
2004 Stock Options	$37.74	12/09/2009		M			8,806	⁽¹⁾	⁽²⁾	Common Stock	8,806	$37.74	0	D
Phantom Stock	$47.21	12/09/2009		A		8,806		⁽³⁾	⁽³⁾	Phantom Stock	8,806	$47.21	8,806	D
Phantom Stock	$47.21	12/09/2009		D			8,806	⁽³⁾	⁽³⁾	Phantom Stock	8,806	$47.21	0	D
2006 Stock Options	$47.05	12/09/2009		M			11,198	⁽¹⁾	⁽²⁾	Common Stock	11,198	$37.74	0	D
Phantom Stock	$47.21	12/09/2009		A		11,198		⁽⁴⁾	⁽⁴⁾	Phantom Stock	11,198	$47.21	11,198	D
Phantom Stock	$47.21	12/09/2009		D			11,198	⁽⁴⁾	⁽⁴⁾	Phantom Stock	11,198	$47.21	0	D

Explanation of Responses:

1. For options granted in any one year, one-seventh of the options of such grant vest and become exercisable on the grant date of the anniversary each year commencing on the first anniversary after the grant.

2. Options expire 3 years after vesting.

3. The reporting person elected to defer receipt of 1,767 shares of common stock issuable upon the exercise of his options, resulting in the accrual to his account of 8,806 shares of phantom stock of which 7,039 of those shares were used to pay for the exercise price. The stock expires upon the termination of the Deferred Compensation Agreement which remains in effect until the reporting persons retirement or the agreement is otherwise terminated.

4. The reporting person elected to defer receipt of 38 shares of common stock issuable upon the exercise of his options, resulting in the accrual to his account of 11,198 shares of phantom stock of which 11,160 of those shares were used to pay for the exercise price. The stock expires upon the termination of the Deferred Compensation Agreement which remains in effect until the reporting persons retirement or the agreement is otherwise terminated.

	Frederic Dorwart	12/11/2009
	** Signature of Reporting Person	Date
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